On May 6, 1996, The Fiji Times shared a remarkable story of enduring love — a quiet, steadfast companionship that blossomed into marriage after nearly half a century.
For Ilaitia Tikoduadua and Torika Roqica, their union was not marked by grandeur or tradition, but by something far deeper: a shared life built on devotion, understanding, and silent comfort.
After 48 years of living together in a de facto relationship, the couple decided it was finally time to formalise their bond through marriage. There were no white gowns or tailored suits, no decorated church, nor a gathering filled with lavish celebration.
Instead, their wedding took place in a hospital room at the Levuka Hospital.
Torika, recovering from illness, lay on her bed in a simple dress. Beside her sat Ilaitia, dressed modestly in a sulu, long-sleeved shirt, and tie. In that quiet, intimate setting, they exchanged their vows — a moment as powerful as any grand ceremony.
The marriage was officiated by the Reverend Sekove Visa of the Methodist Church, who noted it was the first time he had conducted a wedding for a couple of such advanced age.
Ilaitia was 96, and Torika was 83.
Their story began decades earlier, in 1952, when they chose to live together after both had lost their spouses. Their children had grown and moved on, and in the quiet that followed, the two found companionship in each other.
They first met in Levuka when Torika arrived from Vanua Levu with her late husband. Years later, fate brought them together again — this time, to share a home and a life.
According to Torika’s granddaughter, Vasemaca Turaganivolo, their decision was rooted in a simple need.
“They were both old and wanted someone to be there for them.”
Their children supported the union, understanding the comfort and care they brought to one another. Over the years, family members often encouraged them to marry, but Ilaitia saw little need — until Torika’s illness changed everything.
As she lay in hospital, he realised it was time to give her the recognition and honour she deserved.
With the support of their family, the wedding was arranged.
For Torika, it was the fulfilment of a lifelong wish. She had long believed that marriage would bring her peace — both in life and beyond.
Deeply religious, the couple held strong beliefs about what awaited them after death.
“They want to be purified and be received with open arms in the Kingdom of God,” Vasemaca shared.
Despite the simplicity of the setting, the occasion was far from small. More than 100 family members and friends gathered to witness the union, making the day truly special.
Ilaitia, originally from Lovoni in Ovalau, was a former soldier in the Second Battalion of the Fiji Infantry Regiment. He had two children, 15 grandchildren, and a legacy of service.
Torika’s family was even larger — five children, 27 grandchildren, 138 great-grandchildren, and six great-great-grandchildren — a testament to a life rich in generations.
In the end, their wedding was not about ceremony, but about meaning.
It was about love that endured time, loss, and change — and the quiet realisation that some bonds, no matter how long they existed, still deserve to be spoken, honoured, and sealed.
For Torika, it was a dream fulfilled. For Ilaitia, it was a final act of devotion.
And for all who witnessed it, it was a powerful reminder that love does not fade with age — it deepens, patiently waiting for its moment.
