“I URGE every Fijian woman to stop criticising other young women!”
This was the message from a 2025 Hibiscus queen contestant following criticism over her performance during a private judging on Monday.
Miss Social Advocacy Network, Anaseini Rabuku Loiloi, was targeted by two women, reportedly nurses, who commented on her English and the pauses she made while presenting.
Speaking to this newspaper, the 27-year-old said she forgave the critics but urged women to uplift one another instead of tearing each other down.
“I’m a village girl,” she said. “I was brought up in a family with struggles.
“So I couldn’t care less about the cyberbullying. But I urge every Fijian woman that’s doing this — please, stop criticising fellow women.”
She said while she could handle the comments, other young women were more likely to be affected.
Meanwhile, former Miss Hibiscus and coordinator for the pageant Alisi Rabukawaqa said contestants were trained in preparation for public scrutiny and to handle criticism with strength and grace.
“There’s criticism everywhere, from everyone, about any small thing,” she said.
“I came into this role fully aware of that — you just have to roll with the punches.”
As mentor, she said she prioritised helping contestants stay grounded and true to themselves despite public pressure.
“Someone is always picking on something all the time. Even if we can’t control the noise out there, we’re grounded in here.”
Responding to the incidents of cyberbullying, Online Safety Commissioner Filipe Batiwale said such behaviour was disgraceful and disappointing.
“This kind of cyberbullying undermines the confidence and dignity of our young women,” he said. “Where are our values of love, unity, and respect? These are the foundations of our culture.”
He reminded the public that while freedom of expression is a right, it should never be used to harm others.
“Our digital spaces should uplift, not tear down.”
