A little tolerance will eventually lead to a better life, so push through any challenges life throws at you.
Sainimere Kurumaira has been using these words of encouragement, told by her dear mother, to never give up when life hits you hard.
The 23-year-old is the youngest of six siblings. Her third-eldest brother passed away 22 years ago just a year after the Waikete, Tailevu, lass was born.
Formerly of Saint Joseph’s Secondary School, her childhood was not always full of sunshine.
Behind her bubbly personality and kindhearted demeanour is a woman who has been through a lot. But those experiences have moulded her into someone who can tackle just about anything.
“Life was definitely a rollercoaster of a ride for my family,” Ms Kurumaira said.
“We lived in extreme poverty, and my dad’s salary as a salesman was not enough to make ends meet in the city. To help us survive, my mum took on a job as a housemaid.
“Even as a child, I understood our difficult situation. That motivated me to work hard in school and in life. My mum always encouraged my siblings and me to endure hardships.”
Her mother often spoke in her dialect saying, “Na kwa vinaka na vosota,” which means “it is good to tolerate it a bit more”.
Inspiring words like these have empowered her to succeed academically and socially.
“My mum’s words have been a guiding light throughout my life. They have helped me overcome challenges and persevere in the face of adversity.
“I have learned that hardships can be a powerful motivator, shaping us into stronger and more resilient individuals.
Ms Kurumaira says her family’s prayers, sacrifices and own determination have enabled her to achieve great things.
“I have completed my education and built meaningful relationships. While I still face challenges, I approach them with a positive attitude and a belief in my ability to overcome them.
“I am grateful for the lessons I have learned from my family and the experiences I have had. They have made who I am today, and I am committed to using my knowledge and skills to make a positive difference in the world.”
Ms Kurumaira describes herself as a ‘sociable individual’ who enjoys a few bowls of kava surrounded by close friends and family.
“I love meeting new people and conjuring up a good chat, whether it is about the weather or something more random. I am a big fan of kava sessions and good conversations. I am also a curious reader who is always eager to learn something new.”
The national toppers scholarship recipient said growing up, she always wanted to become an anthropologist or a forensic psychologist.
But as time passing, those dreams slow drifted, revealing a new love and curiosity for psychology and education.
“I chose psychology alongside education as I felt it would complement my interests, and my interests involve helping people and understanding where they are coming from.”
The University of the South Pacific graduate believes challenges are part of going through life but one must learn to overcome them.
“I faced a few adversaries of my own during my university years beginning from academic stress due to heavy workload alongside time management issues which proved to be overwhelming.
“Social pressures, such as adjusting to a new environment and making friends, also proved to be difficult. Financial difficulties, encountered especially during covid, also brought a new set of challenges like health problems or family issues also impacted my academic performance.
Her faith has played a huge part in overcoming her trials and tribulations.
“A moment of quietness and prayer can really impact you mentally and most importantly spiritually. This has really allowed me to ground myself and not to lose sight of what I set out to do in life.
September 6, 2024, is a day she will never forget. It is the day she graduated from USP.
“I could not help feeling sad as my mother and a few other of my loved ones had passed on too soon and were not there to witness such a momentous occasion.
“My dad, sister, friends, nau levu, tutua and nephew were all there to support me.”
Ms Kurumaira is currently finishing off her internship at Greenhouse Coworking. Her stint there has proven to be an amazing opportunity to grow as an individual and learn the importance of networking.
She doesn’t only have one hobby but a couple to keep her occupied with whatever free time she has.
“I love streaming music ranging from Kpop, Jpop, Rap, RnB, Blues, amongst other others. I listen to podcasts every now and then and most of these focus on true crime and unsolved mysteries.
“I also love to socialize and exchange stories over a bowl of kava.
She hopes to pursue her masters in forensic psychology or forensic science in the next five years.
“The future is truly unpredictable. I see myself as someone still chasing dreams.”
As an advice to the younger generation, she says ‘never give up’.
“Focus on God and your goals and never lose sight of the person that you are to achieve these.
“Be open to new experiences and don’t be afraid to take on new challenges. Take that leap of faith always,” she said.
