FAMILIES of the nine men who vanished at sea near Kadavu say they are now accepting their loved ones will not return, and have begun preparations for traditional farewell rites.
Among them is Asena Vakaruru, the wife of the late Maciu Niubalavu, who said the reality of the tragedy is slowly sinking in as arrangements are made for the ‘burua’ (a traditional funeral feast or a specific offering of food).
Mrs Vakaruru shared that despite this acceptance, she continues to struggle with disbelief following the maritime incident.
“It is all happening so fast that I don’t believe they are really gone,” she said.
“I am sad mainly for my children and my sisters whose husbands were among the nine men.”
The men are Osea Vakaruru and his three sons Lemeki Tikoitoga, Savenaca Balenatuvu, Julian Tavola, Pita Kinikini, Esekaia Boladuadua, Mateo Tikoitoga, Sitiveni Tekivakatini and Mr Niubalavu.
While families are coming to terms with their loss, Mrs Vakaruru said the emotional burden remained heavy as they prepare for the memorial ceremony.
A memorial mass will be held at 9am on Friday at the Raiwaqa Catholic Church.
Prayers and support has poured in from friends, relatives and church groups, including Columban priests, the Pacific Regional Seminary brothers and parish members.
A soli (offering) will also take place at Nanuku Settlement in Vatuwaqa, Suva, to assist the families – particularly the women and children who depended on the nine men as their main providers.
Those wishing to assist can contact Siteri on 2719690 or Asena on 9308977. Both numbers are also available for M-PAiSA contributions.
