THURSDAYS IN BLACK | Call for collective action | Domestic violence is unacceptable and must stop – Pastor

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Vanuaso Methodist Circuit pastor on Gau Island, Isikeli Qalocabeikadavu at the Methodist church conference in Suva yesterday. Picture: SOPHIE RALULU

A pastor from the Vanuaso Methodist Circuit on Gau Island, Isikeli Qalocabeikadavu, has sounded a strong warning about the rising domestic violence crisis that is threatening communities across the country.

His message serves as a stark reminder that while this issue may appear less visible in maritime islands compared to urban centres, it is growing at an alarming rate and poses a threat to families and society as a whole.

“Domestic violence may seem less visible on maritime islands compared to urban centres like Suva,” Mr Qalocabeikadavu said, “but make no mistake, this issue is rapidly growing in our country.”

His concern highlighted the urgency of addressing the problem sooner rather than later, before it escalates beyond control.

He said in response to this rising challenge, the church took decisive action.

Mr Qalocabeikadavu detailed the proactive steps that the Vanuaso Methodist Circuit had put in place to tackle domestic violence head-on.

“We run targeted awareness programs with our members and invite police officers to speak on these matters.

“These sessions serve as a platform where both men and women come together to confront the problem openly and honestly.

“We deeply engage on all kinds of relationships — between fathers and daughters, husbands and wives, parents and children. These discussions happen regularly because they are vital.”

Mr Qalocabeikadavu emphasised the church’s clear and unwavering stance: “We make it absolutely clear: domestic violence against women and children is unacceptable and must stop.”

When asked about the causes behind the rising rates of domestic violence, he was direct and unflinching.

“Drugs are tearing families apart,” pointing to substance abuse as a key catalyst destroying family bonds.

He also flagged unemployment as a major contributing factor, explaining that economic hardship fuels separation and violent conflicts between spouses.

What worries him most was how this turmoil inevitably trickles down to the most vulnerable — the children, who suffer the consequences of broken homes and unsafe environments.

Beyond economic factors, Mr Qalocabeikadavu highlighted the impact of broader societal changes.

“Urban drift is intensifying domestic violence here and everywhere.

“This is not just a local issue — it is a global epidemic.

“The movement of people from rural and maritime islands into cities in search for jobs and opportunities often result in fractured families and social dislocation, which in turn exacerbates domestic tensions.”

Adding to the gravity of the situation, Mr Qalocabeikadavu noted a disturbing rise in related crimes.

“We are witnessing an increase in sexual assault, rape, harassment, and offensive language.

“These alarming trends indicate that domestic violence is part of a larger spectrum of abuse and violence that threatens the safety and dignity of many individuals in the community.”

To confront these challenges, Mr Qalocabeikadavu made an urgent call for collective action.

“I call on the entire community and all stakeholders to work together to address this issue.

“Our church awareness programs are designed not only to educate but also to foster environment where families can live happily and children can grow up safe and cared for.

“I strongly urge the public, church groups, and all stakeholders to keep this conversation alive — and to teach our children to be responsible, compassionate citizens of tomorrow.”

His passionate plea was a reminder that combating domestic violence required a united, ongoing effort — one that starts with awareness, continues with education, and ultimately builds a future where respect and safety prevail within every home.